When people hang up signs in their home that read “This is a home of love” or “Live, Pray, Laugh, Live, Laugh, Love, Pray, Laugh, Live, Eat” who are they talking to? Are they reminding themselves of their own values? Your guests probably already know you like wine a lot or feel life is better at the lake. Instead of a “music is my life” sign, maybe stand some guitars in the corner. As they say to writers: Show, don’t tell.